Many couples reflect on quality of their intimate life. They consider that if there are periods without sex in their life, it is abnormal. There are 4 myths about healthy sexual life, which often mislead couples.
Myth 1: Both partners should be in suitable mood
It is known that approximately in 15 % of cases one of partners or both would not like to have sex at once. There is a set of reasons: improper time or mood, stresses etc. Sexologists advise: have sex, when you can. And to excite interest, change something in your sexual life - try new poses, new places or watch some erotic film.
Myth 2: Best sex is spontaneous
There is a feature of our modern life - we do only things that are in our schedule. Therefore, spontaneous sex is rather a rare phenomenon. And if you agree with your partner about sex time, it will be some kind of obligation. Besides, you will expect it, and anticipation strengthens pleasure.
Myth 3: you need to have sex 3 times a week
Undoubtedly, regular sex strengthens relations. But for each couple frequency of sexual relations is individual. The main thing that it would suit both of you. And if you do not like, try to talk to your partner about it.
Myth 4: Good sex should be long and slow
We are often pressed for time nowadays. Therefore, few people can afford themselves such luxury, as long sex. And if you wait for a right moment, sexual relations will become extremely rare. For decision of this problem sexologists advise love games in places unusual to you, for example, in a shower or on a sofa in a drawing room and also to embrace more often.
