Frivolous relationships are like weak tea: neither taste, no pleasure.
From time to time every woman starts scrolling wedding dress variants, possible names of her future children, plans of home arrangement and many other moments of coexistence with her second half. And she is scrolling all this through until she asks herself a question: how serious her relationships are and whether they will go so far?
Sign 1. He does not introduce you to his relatives, parents
As a rule acquaintance with girl’s parents takes place on early stages of relationships. A family with a daughter is more anxious, than one with a son. Mother and father want to know whom their grown-up kid goes for a drive and visits bars in the night with and who brings her home in the morning. Acquaintance with his relatives usually takes place much later.
If he puts off your acquaintance with his parents and has excellent relations with them, you can consider this as his lightness towards you. You can determine it through his talks about joint trips, conversations and, in general, through situations happening in his family.
We pay attention to this fact deliberately. A family, where misunderstanding and quarrels prevail, is not a boast. This only means a man does not want your meeting with his relatives, as they can damage your good impression of him, make a bad showing of him, does not want your relationships to be discussed in his family, is afraid of jealous mother’s scandals or just mean behavior. So, firstly find a reason of his unwillingness to introduce you to his parents, and only then suspect him of carelessness.
Sign 2. He does not introduce you to his friends
This is absolutely different situation. We do not choose parents and relatives, but we can really choose friends. A man who is proud of his lady likes introducing her to his circle. The main thing is that this acquaintance should not resemble demonstration where he is boasting of his status, not joy of communication such lovely girl. In serious relationships a man wants introducing his woman only to his close circle.
Sign 3. Infrequent meetings
A man who can forget about a meeting, seldom calls and visits you, is not serious. You know, a loving person wants spending all free moments together with his half. And constant pressures of work or sudden proceedings are of no importance. As a rule, those who made a serious mistake in previous partner, try to hide from serious relationships. This is just a rescue from loneliness, necessary during moments, when his friends are not with him. This is his choice between them and you, in favor of his friends.
Sign 4. He does not help you in hour of need
Frivolous relationships have one huge minus – lack of responsibility for actions between man and woman, complete freedom of thoughts ad actions. Such relationships are often called friendship with elements of sex. However, this “friendship” supposes help, mutual rescue and respect.
Their difference from serious relationships is absence of plans for future, prospects of family building. And if your partner does not want to help you in hour of need, think, do you really need such person in your circle? Serious relationships with him are impossible. Quite often, frivolous relationships are necessary to fill the gap while absence of close person.
Sign 5. He does not speak about plans for future, children
If a man does not speak about future or children, this does not mean he is not serious about you. There is a category of men, who do not want making far-reaching plans to avoid overlooking. You have to accept it. But if he becomes touchy, angry and captious – this is a true sign your communication will be over in a while, as you do not have development of relationships already. They stand still.
However, you should remember harsh reaction while conversation about children is possible also, when a man already has one child from different woman, and he does not want another one, and also while physical inability to have children. You know, this causes complexes.
