You are wandering around dating sites unsuccessfully, visit psychologists, attend all possible parties, however the result is zero - there are no men in your life! It is quite possible your apartment’s atmosphere is guilty of it! At least, Feng Shui experts think so.
To make your private life harmonious, you need to counterpoise energetic balance between machismo (Yang) and woman (Yin). It would seem, you need to make your house more masculine to attract men to it. However, everything is not so easy!
Men can avoid women that filled her whole apartment with “man’s” attributes. Strict classic furniture, bright bras, various gears, small tools, jeans and running shoes, scattered all over… Remember, most men still like typical representatives of fair sex, not “soldiers in skirt”!
If your interior resembles a Barbie’s house (fluffy toys, volutes, arch lambrequins on windows, bows and flowers), then your chances are also small. Men will just feel uncomfortable in such atmosphere, or they will start fearing destroying this harmony unconsciously.
A man will not stay for a long in such house.
What to do? Firstly, take a view of your home and determine what you need to add.
Your house looks too “manly”? So, you need to make it more “feminine”!
Women should have soft muted lightning. Twist in weaker lamps in your bras. Switch on a chandelier only when you are waiting for guests. During rest time use bras, standard lamps and table lamps. Curtains should be definitely drawn!
Buy a mini-fountain or at least air saturator. Put aquariums or water containers where possible. Take flashy landscapes off the walls - they have too aggressive energy. You should better paste on wallpapers with the views of nature. And do not forget about flower pots! They are just splashing with Yin energy!
Your house lacks of “manly” energy? Replace stools on your kitchen by chairs with long backs.
Movable furniture is also a “manly” attribute – for example, a wheeled wine table. Choose checked or striped curtains and coverlets.
Twist in brighter lamps, hang a new chandelier, just avoid various tracery elements! Or buy a new table lamp of a strict design.
Hang out bright pictures and posters on walls. But loudly ticking watch, put some glider’s model in plain view.
Fans and air-conditioners are also a source of “manly” energy. Hang out your photos on walls, those where you are pictured with your friends and relatives. Not the ones, where you are lonely: pictures of lonely women scare away Yang!
You probably already guessed “manly” and “feminine” elements in your apartment should correspond to each other. How?
You can invent this by yourself. If you have several rooms, one of them could be arranged in a “manly” style, another one – in “feminine”.
If you have one room, it is good to alternate Yin and Yang elements in it. Surely, you should change your interior considering your material possibilities. If your incomes are not high – change at least small things. Very likely your private life will get right!
