Sometimes everything occurs in our life not the way we would like it to. It is necessary to wait too long or the result does not justify expectation. If there are things, which you can ignore, impossibility to get pregnant wounds any woman. We start searching for the reasons assiduously. Let’s examine them.
How to choose time?
The period when pregnancy approach is the most probable, is called fertile period. According to the research spent in 1995 by National institute of female health (USA), it lasts during 6 days: five days before ovulation and one day after it. Ovulation occurs every month approximately in the middle of menstrual cycle. It can be defined, using basal temperature measurement method. Right after ovulation the temperature increases by 0,2–0,4 degrees.
There is a simple recommendation for couples to make their sexual acts coming for ovulation period, when female organism is most ready to conception: to make love every other day during the period between 10th and 18th days (counting the first day of menstruation as the first day) of your monthly cycle.
However, do not treat your love-making too earthian. It will make too strong pressure upon the whole pleasant, romantic process of conception. Ii is just better to make love in good time presumable ovulation term within several months with pleasure. When you understand that for any reason you cannot get pregnant, address for consultation to the doctor.
Abstention – a way to conception?
Long time it was considered that a man should abstain from sex within several days before a woman’s most fertile period, so that to accumulate more seed liquid. Partly it is true. Researches show that the more often a man obtains ejaculation, the less seed liquid he has.
How often sex is necessary?
It is necessary to notice that fertile property of sperm depends on frequency of sexual intercourses. The more sexual intercourses and ejaculations a man has, the better a primary factor for conception is.
At the same time, several acts a day have the opposite effect — spermatozoa concentration goes down considerably. Whether it means you should be engaged in love-making every day to increase the chances to become pregnant? Not at all.
Couples having sexual acts during fertile period every other day, have almost same high percent of conception, as those who do it every day (22 and 25% accordingly). And for couples having sex once a week, this percent decreases to 10, as they simply can pass a high light when it is possible to become pregnant.
Four and more acts in a week make an optimum rhythm for conception. At abstention, since fifth-sixth day, this possibility decreases.
Whether a pose is important?
The national rumour says: to conceive a child, it is necessary to refuse certain sexual poses. It is not true. Spermatozoa possess special means of transportation, therefore couples can not worry on a pose.
It is possible to ignore also opinion on necessity of lying on a back during half an hour after sexual act, having enclosed a pillow under hips or having lifted feet upwards. When seed liquid appears in a vagina, millions of spermatozoa direct upwards to an uterus and appear there literally in some minutes. And the fact some sperm follows after sexual intercourse, is natural, and you should not worry about it.
Do not panic!
If pregnancy has not come, do not panic. First of all, it is necessary to remember that after the termination of reception of oral contraceptives a month should pass, at least.
Women under 30 years should not to worry on absence of pregnancy within a year.
Do not postpone
If you are older, difficulties to get pregnant increase, therefore it is not necessary to delay medical consultation. Here experts recommend to adhere to such scheme: women at the age from 30 till 35 years should visit a doctor in 6–9 months after unsuccessful attempts to become pregnant, 35–40–y.o. women should address in consultation after 6 months of unsuccessful diligence, and ladies after 40 years — after three months of sex acts without protection.
The matter is in calmness and confidence
The impossibility to get pregnant is rather a psychological problem, adjust on failure, and only then physiological malfunctions. Having understood yourself, suppressed all negative emotions, sneezed at conversations around, concentrate that you are ready to become a mum and calm down with this thought. And in calmness and self-trust it will be easier and easier to move to the purpose — motherhood.
