Becoming a mistress, a woman thinks about consequences of her actions not very often. And in vain. Life is passing by, and you will not be able to start it since the very beginning. So, lovely ladies, take following tips as information to reflect, first, and as a warning, second.
Tip first, principal. Forget the word «marriage». If you intend to continue associating yourself with a partner through marriage, give yourself a simpler name - «female partner». Men marry (and rarely) female partners, that is, those women who, among other things, have proven their ability to maintain a household.
Tip Two. Having decided to become someone’s lover, do not fall into common mistake and aspire to become a «vamp». A normal man aspires to such type of women no more, than to climbing without belay or shark spinning. So - throw away fish-net black stockings, super mini skirts, too high heels and bright make-up. Men are not so stupid as women think.
Tip third. Do not ask your lover about his family life. At best, you will not hear the truth, at worst - anything flattering. Moreover, if a lover begins complaining you about his wife - beware! This means he needs not a lover, but a psychoanalyst.
Tip four. The best gift for your lover - you. God forbid you to give him ties, lighters, cologne, and even key rings for wacthes. Otherwise, with each new meeting, he will more and more resemble a child, who is only interested in one thing: what a «good aunt» prepared for him this time?
Tip fifth. Do not wait you will be presented gifts, if you pay for yourself in the tram (taxi, restaurant, cinema, casino …) at the first meeting. But teach your lover to come to you with something, at least with a bunch of snowdrops.
Tip sixth. Repeat your lover you would not marry him, even if he would be the only man in the world, because freedom for you is above all. At the same time, in no way allow him being aware of your personal life. The element of mystery, plus a sense of security normally operate without misfire: inamorato will remain with you exactly as you need it.
Tip seventh. Do not represent things you really do not feel. No, this is not an intimate relationship. If you are bored with a lover - let him understand it. If you are irritated by his habit to combine your dates with Football Championship on TV - tell him about it. And if you melt, when he strokes your back, show him.
Tip Eight. Do not dance to your lover’s tune, only if he is not a President or UN Secretary-General. All other men in fact, may make their regime flexible enough to meet with you when it is convenient to you both. Otherwise you risk becoming a «call girl» with the only difference that you will not be paid.
Tip nine. Be natural. If you’re wild about «Santa Barbara», and your lover recognizes only Fellini films, this does not mean that you must share his intellectual delight. Just admit that you do not mind - and kill at least two birds with one stone. First, you will extricate yourself from inevitable dislocation of brain: not all people see even universally masterpieces adequately. And secondly, you will just flatter your lover, as each man is confident that he is born smarter than any woman, simply because he is a man.
Tip tenth and the last. Whatever you do, whatever cunning ways of enticing and retaining you use, you should always arrange your maneuvers, as if the initiative had come from a man. You need to convince him that he is seeking you, not you. If you succeed - any man will be at your feet.
Happy hunting!
